Should my parent be living alone with dementia?

Distinguished Media • Mar 21, 2024

Can my parent live alone with Dementia? Do we need Home Care?


A dementia diagnosis for a parent or loved one can be an unsettling experience, triggering a wave of questions and concerns about the road ahead. It’s natural to feel a mix of emotions and to want to provide the best possible care, especially if your parent lives alone. To navigate this journey effectively, it’s crucial to understand how dementia affects individuals, how it progresses over time, and when it may become necessary to consider home care.


Your initial instincts are driven by a deep desire to offer care and protection to your parent, and that’s commendable. However, it’s equally important to be well-informed about how to care for a parent with dementia at home. Understanding the care options available is a key part of this process. Engaging in open discussions with your parent or loved one about their preferences and life choices is vital to ensure their wishes are respected and their needs are met.


Together, you can craft a personalised care plan that aligns with their unique requirements, offering much-needed reassurance to everyone involved. The goal is to provide the best possible support while maintaining their comfort and dignity throughout their journey with dementia.


How Dementia Progresses: Understanding the Stages


Dementia is a condition that unfolds gradually, with distinct stages that bring about various challenges for both individuals and their caregivers. Understanding how dementia progresses can help you plan for the care and support needed at each stage of the journey.

Early-Stage Dementia: The Beginning


In the early stages, dementia symptoms are relatively mild. Individuals often maintain their ability to drive, work, and participate in community activities without specialised care. However, it’s essential to be aware of early signs, as highlighted by Dementia UK:


  • Mild concentration and memory problems
  • Difficulty tracking and responding to conversations
  • Challenges in planning, problem-solving, and decision-making
  • Occasional disorientation, including getting lost or misplacing items
  • Low moods and feelings of anxiety
  • The Middle Stage: Navigating New Realities


As dementia progresses into the middle stage, daily tasks like cooking and cleaning can become more challenging. This is when the need for care options becomes evident, as symptoms become increasingly noticeable. Despite the changes, it’s possible for your loved one to continue leading a fulfilling life with the right care and support, which also enhances safety and security.


Tasks involving higher risk, such as meal preparation and medication management, often require additional support to ensure your loved one’s safety. Middle-stage dementia may also manifest in behavioural changes, including difficulty sleeping, restlessness, and mood swings. Importantly, caring for someone with dementia at home during this stage can be less confusing for them, as they remain in the comfort of their familiar surroundings.


By understanding the progression of dementia, you can make informed decisions about the care and support needed to enhance the quality of life for your loved one throughout their journey with this condition.



How Dementia Caregivers Make a Difference


As dementia progresses, caregivers play a crucial role in providing the right support for your loved one. Their expertise ensures that the dementia care plan remains flexible, adapting to your parent’s evolving needs. Caregivers perform thorough risk assessments to guarantee your loved one’s safety during various activities while offering the essential companionship and homecare services that enhance their quality of life.



Recognising When Live-In Care is Necessary


Determining when a person with dementia should stop living alone is a vital step in ensuring their safety and well-being. Typically, it’s during the later stages of this condition that live-in care may become a necessity.



Learn More About Our Dementia Care Services


If your parent has recently received a dementia diagnosis, we’re here to provide the help and support you both need during this challenging time.


To explore our comprehensive Dementia Care services, don’t hesitate to reach out to Distinguished today.


We are committed to offering compassionate and professional care to enhance the well-being of your loved one on their dementia journey.


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